I continue to think about relaxing, Alexander technique alignment, opera singer, and spinning the voice through a large space in my pharynx and projecting it through my breath. Breath is big. I have learned it is really the most important thing for me to have control and hit the notes not just with confidence, but with better control and accuracy.
I have also learned that if I allow myself to move while singing, it not only feels better, but allows the relaxing into the song, getting me out of the way of the song. So much of this is in my head, it is the way I am thinking that can get in the way or free me up to sing better, more naturally, but more technically correct. I have a long way to go, but I feel I have made some breakthroughs these past few weeks.